How to Eliminate All Negative Thoughts

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How to Eliminate All Negative Thoughts THIS is what absolutely stumps guys who are learning how to interpret the world from a solid inner game mindset, and it’s something I have direct experience in resolving because I’ve heard it SO many times over the years: How do I stay positive when I get a negative […]

Category: Inner Game, State

How to Improve Your Conversation Skills

Ever heard of the Kool-Aid Man? You know, that big pitcher of Kool-Aid from those eighties commercials? One of them went something like this: There’s a party in black-and-white. It’s lame as hell—the guys are on one side, the girls on the other.             Then the Kool-Aid Man busts through […]

Category: Attraction, Conversation Skills, Female Psychology

Tips to Attract Women—How NOT to Go for the Hug

Todd Valentine here, fresh off bootcamp to impart some SICK tips on how to attract women. Last night one of my students asked me a pretty interesting (and totally common) question. I get this ALL the time: Do you always go for the hug on the opener? Go for the hug? What does Go for […]

Category: Attraction, Escalation, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

How to Get a Girl to Like You

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This is a broad topic, but I’m going to try to make it very specific for you. In order for a girl to like you, there are two things that have to happen. Number one, she must know you exist. Sadly, for most guys, that’s harder to achieve than goal number two. Number two is […]

Category: Attraction, Dates

What To Do After You Get Her Number—How To Get More Dates

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After my recent post on “How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number,” I’ve received a lot of correspondence from guys about what to do after you get the number. Today I’m going to take a moment to explain the most effective ways to follow up on a number, get more dates, and then we’ll discuss […]

Category: Dates, Phone Number

How To Find Your Passion – A Motivational Guide

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The quickest way to find your passion is to first know what passion looks like. Without a clear view of exactly where you’re supposed to be heading, you could simply think a mild interest in a hobby, woman, or business venture will lead you to major success. Certainly consumerist culture seems to think so. But true, consistent, […]

Category: Inner Game, Motivation

Healthy Narcissism – The Masculine Journey

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Narcissism is a word that commonly has negative connotations, and often, it’s for good reason. However, there is such a thing as “healthy narcissism”, and often in life, to get what you want – you need to cultivate it. When looking at the process of growing your dating life into something robust and long-lasting, narcissism […]

Category: Inner Game

Cure Loneliness After A Breakup – A Rational Approach

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Over the course of a dating coach’s career, one of the most common tasks is to teach men how to cure loneliness after a breakup. Now, as men we like logical answers to even our emotional problems, and so perhaps the best way to attack the scourge of neediness after a bad breakup is with a rational […]

Category: Inner Game, Motivation

Nice Guys Finish Last – A Treatise

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Being classed as a “nice guy” has destroyed more men’s chances with women than almost anything else. We all know the phrase – “nice guys finish last”. Too many times to count, dating coaches must unwire some very toxic beliefs and behaviors with guys who suffer from “nice guy syndrome”, and it’s time to now […]

Category: Attraction, Friend Zone