Steal My Lines… At Your Own Risk

Todd Conversation Skills, Female Psychology, Outer Game, Psychology/Philosophy

“Hi, I saw you, and I couldn’t help but come over and say hi” “Hey… who the F**k are you?” “You. You’re a troublemaker.” The vast majority of students that come onto my Immersion programs usually come equipped with an arsenal of phrases that I’ve heard a thousand times before. Some that I word for word invented over a decade ago. Which is really quite, flattering and kind of a trip sometimes. And honestly, if you’re just starting out, that’s ok. Go ahead and steal some lines. Anything …

Sexual Intent — How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up, guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to tell you all the stories, field reports, and lessons that have helped me over the course of my time in game, and I hope you …

Of Course Looks Matter… Are You $#$!)@$??

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Motivation

There is an idea repeated endlessly in the pickup community that “looks don’t matter.” What a load of horse shit! Of course looks matter. The real question is HOW MUCH do looks matter, and WHY do pickup coaches want you to believe that they don’t? You want evidence looks matter… okay, here you go: Obviously GETTING APPROACHED by girls makes the game a lot easier. But it’s not the whole story. I remember a friend I once had in Hollywood, who was very good looking. …

How To Stop A Girl And Start A Conversation

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Outer Game

Let’s talk about the scariest part of an interaction… the opener. What do you do and what do you say. I could talk for hours on all the nuances of this subject, but for this article I’m going to keep it super simple and I’m going to focus on the DOING more than on the saying, because when you DO the right thing, And let’s talk about girls in motion. The most common situation, but also one of the most difficult. Here’s the quick and …

The “Shit Test” And Why It’s One Of The Most Important Pieces In Attraction

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Female Psychology, Outer Game

Attractive girls get hit on A LOT. So much that they couldn’t possibly say yes to even a small fraction of guys who are throwing themselves at them. So they need a way to instantly tell if a guy is the real deal. Enter the shit test. By challenging a guy or putting him under pressure, girls can find out almost instantly who’s worth their time and who’s a pretender. Which actually brings up a good point… You should be HAPPY when she shit tests …

What it Means to Be Polarizing — LR From Online Game

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Lay Report, Outer Game

Attractive girls get messaged by literally hundreds of guys every day. So if you want success online, you must stand out. You need to trigger an emotional response—ideally a good one, but any response is a good one. This brings me to a key concept: polarization. Polarize [poh-luh-rahyz] to divide into sharply opposing factions, political groups, etc. Being polarizing means doing or saying something people will either love or hate—with no middle ground. My online dating profiles are always polarizing, including phrases such as:   • Life is too short to dance with …

The Art Of The Reframe – Your Shortcut To Persuasion And Sex

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Outer Game, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

How would you like to know how to get your way in every interaction? Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful tools in my pickup arsenal, then I’m going to show you a video of me using it to get a girl to leave the club with me in less than ten minutes. The tool is called a “reframe” and it allows you to change the meaning of words and events in an interaction any time you want. As such, it basically …

How To Use A Condom – The Lay Report That Nearly Wasn’t

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Intent, Kissing, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

I’d like to share an interesting lay report with you, including an advanced—but super subtle—way to a pull a girl. (Oh, and I thought you’d want to know that even experienced guys can screw up royally, too. More on that in a second.) I actually find most of my lay reports boring. They have a similar pattern: Meet girl, pull girl, have sex. Wash, rinse, repeat. (Yeah, I know, talk about your “first-world problems.”) For insights into getting predictably great results when you go for …

Field Report: Pulling A Rich Man’s Girl

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Female Psychology

Here’s a quick field report that demonstrates two important pickup concepts. And who knows—it might even help you steal a cute girl from a millionaire one day. I was shooting pool at a bar in Thailand with my assistant, Kevin, when two cute girls walked in. “We got next,” one said as they sat down to order drinks. Kevin and I finished our game—and considered the best way to open. The girls didn’t seem to care much about pool. They were giggling, texting, and barely watching …

The Wrong Kind Of Entitlement — Game Is A PERFORMING Art

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Entitlement, Inner Game, Self-Help

Let me share with you an advanced sticking point I have in game. I have entitlement issues. No, not the kind newbies have where they feel unworthy of the girls they desire. I have TOO MUCH entitlement at times. Let me explain: I’ve slept with tons of really hot girls in my life. I’ve had rotations of many girls at a time. Basically, for the past 8-10 years I’ve never wanted for sex with hot girls. Which is great, but it does create a skewed …