Sexual Intent — How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up, guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to tell you all the stories, field reports, and lessons that have helped me over the course of my time in game, and I hope you …

How To Pick Up Swedish Girls

Todd Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

It’s true what they say about Sweden. You walk into a 7-11 and the girl behind the counter should be modeling for Maxim. When me and my crew of 6 coaches arrived, we were pumped to hit it up with the Immersion students, and then we discovered one little problem: What works for us like magic in LA and NYC…wasn’t working. Correction: It was working so well that none of us were pulling. Massive IOI’s, total anime eyes from girls left and right. Girls getting …

Create Procedures and Free Up Mental Ram

Garrett Escalation, Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

While serving in the United States Marine Corps, one of the biggest things I learned from my experience was the power of setting procedures. Ingraining procedures into the mind allows Marines to not only free up mental space to handle the nuances of the battlefield, but to move toward mission success while doing so. And we wouldn’t just set any old procedures in place. We would ensure, through pre-battlefield trial and error, that they were the most effective routes to take. When you have zero …

The Point of No Return – Why She Flakes on You After a “Good” Date

Todd Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flaking, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

We’ve all had the experience. You take a girl home, everything is going well. It looks like sex is in the cards. You start to escalate. There’s a tiny bit of hesitation on her part, but she clearly likes you and is clearly horny. Clothes start coming off. Maybe you even start to finger her. Maybe she even grabs your dick over your jeans… This is looking really good, right? Next thing you know, she sits up with a start, and says she needs to …

What it Means to Be Polarizing — LR From Online Game

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Lay Report, Outer Game

Attractive girls get messaged by literally hundreds of guys every day. So if you want success online, you must stand out. You need to trigger an emotional response—ideally a good one, but any response is a good one. This brings me to a key concept: polarization. Polarize [poh-luh-rahyz] to divide into sharply opposing factions, political groups, etc. Being polarizing means doing or saying something people will either love or hate—with no middle ground. My online dating profiles are always polarizing, including phrases such as:   • Life is too short to dance with …

The Art Of The Reframe – Your Shortcut To Persuasion And Sex

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Outer Game, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

How would you like to know how to get your way in every interaction? Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful tools in my pickup arsenal, then I’m going to show you a video of me using it to get a girl to leave the club with me in less than ten minutes. The tool is called a “reframe” and it allows you to change the meaning of words and events in an interaction any time you want. As such, it basically …

Up The Ante: What Poker Teaches Us About Good Game

Todd Escalation, Friend Zone, Intent, Life/Business/Health, Motivation, Outer Game, Self-Help, Winner Game

In my life, I’ve learned a lot from games; specifically games that combine skill and chance. Three of my favorites are poker, Monopoly and, of course, pickup. Luck plays a big part in each of these endeavors, so at times your fate seems out of your hands. Drawing bad cards, landing on a hotel-covered Boardwalk, opening four straight girls who have fiancés…it can make you pull your hair out. True, there’s a lot we can’t control—in the short run. But don’t forget the long game. …

How To Use A Condom – The Lay Report That Nearly Wasn’t

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Intent, Kissing, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

I’d like to share an interesting lay report with you, including an advanced—but super subtle—way to a pull a girl. (Oh, and I thought you’d want to know that even experienced guys can screw up royally, too. More on that in a second.) I actually find most of my lay reports boring. They have a similar pattern: Meet girl, pull girl, have sex. Wash, rinse, repeat. (Yeah, I know, talk about your “first-world problems.”) For insights into getting predictably great results when you go for …

Tips to Attract Women—How NOT to Go for the Hug

Todd Attraction, Escalation, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

Todd Valentine here, fresh off bootcamp to impart some SICK tips on how to attract women. Last night one of my students asked me a pretty interesting (and totally common) question. I get this ALL the time: Do you always go for the hug on the opener? Go for the hug? What does Go for the hug even mean? For me, the hug is such a non-accomplishment at this point in my pickup career that it DOESN’T EVEN REGISTER in my brain when I’m out. …