Steal My Lines… At Your Own Risk

Todd Conversation Skills, Female Psychology, Outer Game, Psychology/Philosophy

“Hi, I saw you, and I couldn’t help but come over and say hi” “Hey… who the F**k are you?” “You. You’re a troublemaker.” The vast majority of students that come onto my Immersion programs usually come equipped with an arsenal of phrases that I’ve heard a thousand times before. Some that I word for word invented over a decade ago. Which is really quite, flattering and kind of a trip sometimes. And honestly, if you’re just starting out, that’s ok. Go ahead and steal some lines. Anything …

Sexual Intent — How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up, guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to tell you all the stories, field reports, and lessons that have helped me over the course of my time in game, and I hope you …

Of Course Looks Matter… Are You $#$!)@$??

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Motivation

There is an idea repeated endlessly in the pickup community that “looks don’t matter.” What a load of horse shit! Of course looks matter. The real question is HOW MUCH do looks matter, and WHY do pickup coaches want you to believe that they don’t? You want evidence looks matter… okay, here you go: Obviously GETTING APPROACHED by girls makes the game a lot easier. But it’s not the whole story. I remember a friend I once had in Hollywood, who was very good looking. …

How To Pick Up Swedish Girls

Todd Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

It’s true what they say about Sweden. You walk into a 7-11 and the girl behind the counter should be modeling for Maxim. When me and my crew of 6 coaches arrived, we were pumped to hit it up with the Immersion students, and then we discovered one little problem: What works for us like magic in LA and NYC…wasn’t working. Correction: It was working so well that none of us were pulling. Massive IOI’s, total anime eyes from girls left and right. Girls getting …

The Point of No Return – Why She Flakes on You After a “Good” Date

Todd Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flaking, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

We’ve all had the experience. You take a girl home, everything is going well. It looks like sex is in the cards. You start to escalate. There’s a tiny bit of hesitation on her part, but she clearly likes you and is clearly horny. Clothes start coming off. Maybe you even start to finger her. Maybe she even grabs your dick over your jeans… This is looking really good, right? Next thing you know, she sits up with a start, and says she needs to …

How to Not Lose at the Numbers Game

Todd Female Psychology, Inner Game, Outer Game

Ok, tell me if you’ve had this epiphany. The more girls you approach, the luckier you get. I.e. You just have to run through X number of girls before you find the one that likes you. The one you hook. The one you pull and well… get lucky with. Doesn’t matter how many rejections you get, as long as you get ONE to like you eventually, you win, right? If you believe that pickup is a numbers game, I’ve got news for you. You’re technically …

The “Shit Test” And Why It’s One Of The Most Important Pieces In Attraction

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Female Psychology, Outer Game

Attractive girls get hit on A LOT. So much that they couldn’t possibly say yes to even a small fraction of guys who are throwing themselves at them. So they need a way to instantly tell if a guy is the real deal. Enter the shit test. By challenging a guy or putting him under pressure, girls can find out almost instantly who’s worth their time and who’s a pretender. Which actually brings up a good point… You should be HAPPY when she shit tests …

What it Means to Be Polarizing — LR From Online Game

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Lay Report, Outer Game

Attractive girls get messaged by literally hundreds of guys every day. So if you want success online, you must stand out. You need to trigger an emotional response—ideally a good one, but any response is a good one. This brings me to a key concept: polarization. Polarize [poh-luh-rahyz] to divide into sharply opposing factions, political groups, etc. Being polarizing means doing or saying something people will either love or hate—with no middle ground. My online dating profiles are always polarizing, including phrases such as:   • Life is too short to dance with …

The Art Of The Reframe – Your Shortcut To Persuasion And Sex

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Outer Game, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

How would you like to know how to get your way in every interaction? Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful tools in my pickup arsenal, then I’m going to show you a video of me using it to get a girl to leave the club with me in less than ten minutes. The tool is called a “reframe” and it allows you to change the meaning of words and events in an interaction any time you want. As such, it basically …

How To Use A Condom – The Lay Report That Nearly Wasn’t

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Intent, Kissing, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

I’d like to share an interesting lay report with you, including an advanced—but super subtle—way to a pull a girl. (Oh, and I thought you’d want to know that even experienced guys can screw up royally, too. More on that in a second.) I actually find most of my lay reports boring. They have a similar pattern: Meet girl, pull girl, have sex. Wash, rinse, repeat. (Yeah, I know, talk about your “first-world problems.”) For insights into getting predictably great results when you go for …