How To Get Sexual… The Right Way

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Friend Zone, Intent, Kissing, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Psychology/Philosophy

The number one thing that separates “game” from “conversation” is sex. Lots of guys are great storytellers, or outgoing, or can tell a joke. That doesn’t mean they’re gonna have lots of sex. To kind of cement this idea in your mind, ask yourself about your preconceptions of the following words. Class clown Mysterious Stranger #1 is far more social …

Up The Ante: What Poker Teaches Us About Good Game

Todd Escalation, Friend Zone, Intent, Life/Business/Health, Motivation, Outer Game, Self-Help, Winner Game

In my life, I’ve learned a lot from games; specifically games that combine skill and chance. Three of my favorites are poker, Monopoly and, of course, pickup. Luck plays a big part in each of these endeavors, so at times your fate seems out of your hands. Drawing bad cards, landing on a hotel-covered Boardwalk, opening four straight girls who …

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Nice Guys Finish Last – A Treatise

Todd Attraction, Friend Zone

Being classed as a “nice guy” has destroyed more men’s chances with women than almost anything else. We all know the phrase – “nice guys finish last”. Too many times to count, dating coaches must unwire some very toxic beliefs and behaviors with guys who suffer from “nice guy syndrome”, and it’s time to now discuss exactly how to unwire …

How to Get Out of the Friend Zone

Todd Friend Zone, Intent

One of the most common questions in men’s dating is: How do I get out of the friend zone? While a simple enough concept to understand—no one likes to be involuntarily removed from consideration for intimacy—it presents a number of problems that need to be dealt with before I can present you with some avenues out of this dreaded position. …