Who You Are vs Who You Believe You Are

Garrett Entitlement, Inner Game, Psychology/Philosophy, Self-Help, State, Winner Game

Hey, guys. Last month’s article was heavily focused on outer game and dialing down on procedures. The aim was to really master the right techniques and internalize them effortlessly. For this month’s article, I wanted to balance it out by focusing on inner game: Your ego, your rationalizations/cognitive biases, and being honest with yourself. Rationalization  The action of attempting to …

Sexual Intent – How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to …

Of Course Looks Matter… Are You $#$!)@$??

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Motivation

There is an idea repeated endlessly in the pickup community that “looks don’t matter.” What a load of horse shit! Of course looks matter. The real question is HOW MUCH do looks matter, and WHY do pickup coaches want you to believe that they don’t? You want evidence looks matter… okay, here you go: Obviously GETTING APPROACHED by girls makes …

Create Procedures and Free Up Mental Ram

Garrett Escalation, Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

While serving in the United States Marine Corps, one of the biggest things I learned from my experience was the power of setting procedures. Ingraining procedures into the mind allows Marines to not only free up mental space to handle the nuances of the battlefield, but to move toward mission success while doing so. And we wouldn’t just set any …

Why “Masculinity” Is Bullshit

Todd Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Self-Help, Winner Game

Yes, you read that title right. Now I’m not saying there isn’t such a thing as masculinity, and I’m not saying that being polarizing and acting in “like a man” (whatever that means exactly) isn’t an effective strategy for attraction in many cases. In fact women are ON AVERAGE, attracted to traits that are more masculine. Muscular definition, facial and …

How to Not Lose at the Numbers Game

Todd Female Psychology, Inner Game, Outer Game

Ok, tell me if you’ve had this epiphany. The more girls you approach, the luckier you get. I.e. You just have to run through X number of girls before you find the one that likes you. The one you hook. The one you pull and well… get lucky with. Doesn’t matter how many rejections you get, as long as you …

Self-Help

How To “Stand Tall” In Game

Todd Inner Game, Motivation, Self-Help

The other day I found myself on a plane… as usual… but for once I wasn’t so sleep deprived as to make me fall immediately into a comatose sleep.  So my next thought was to be productive.  That thought quickly passed. Instead I turned my attention to the movie menu.  After briefly flirting with some empty-mental-calorie action flicks, I settled …