Sexual Intent — How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up, guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to tell you all the stories, field reports, and lessons that have helped me over the course of my time in game, and I hope you …

Of Course Looks Matter… Are You $#$!)@$??

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Motivation

There is an idea repeated endlessly in the pickup community that “looks don’t matter.” What a load of horse shit! Of course looks matter. The real question is HOW MUCH do looks matter, and WHY do pickup coaches want you to believe that they don’t? You want evidence looks matter… okay, here you go: Obviously GETTING APPROACHED by girls makes the game a lot easier. But it’s not the whole story. I remember a friend I once had in Hollywood, who was very good looking. …

Create Procedures and Free Up Mental Ram

Garrett Escalation, Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

While serving in the United States Marine Corps, one of the biggest things I learned from my experience was the power of setting procedures. Ingraining procedures into the mind allows Marines to not only free up mental space to handle the nuances of the battlefield, but to move toward mission success while doing so. And we wouldn’t just set any old procedures in place. We would ensure, through pre-battlefield trial and error, that they were the most effective routes to take. When you have zero …

Why I Think “Hustle” Is Overrated and What I Use Instead…

Todd Inner Game, Motivation, Outer Game, Winner Game

Full disclosure: This article isn’t just about getting girls. In fact this applies to basically any area of your life that you want to conquer. Gym. Business. Pokemon Go. Whatever. But for now I’m going to talk about my area of expertise: getting girls. When I first found out about the game community at the age of 18, (when I was a virgin), I almost immediately fell in love with the very concept. I dove in hard. After some suffering and confusion at the beginning, I …

Why “Masculinity” Is Bullshit

Todd Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Self-Help, Winner Game

Yes, you read that title right. Now I’m not saying there isn’t such a thing as masculinity, and I’m not saying that being polarizing and acting in “like a man” (whatever that means exactly) isn’t an effective strategy for attraction in many cases. In fact women are ON AVERAGE, attracted to traits that are more masculine. Muscular definition, facial and body hair, strong jaw lines etc… as well as risk-taking leadership-associated behaviors etc.. So as far as that goes, “masculinity” is great. However I have …

How to Not Lose at the Numbers Game

Todd Female Psychology, Inner Game, Outer Game

Ok, tell me if you’ve had this epiphany. The more girls you approach, the luckier you get. I.e. You just have to run through X number of girls before you find the one that likes you. The one you hook. The one you pull and well… get lucky with. Doesn’t matter how many rejections you get, as long as you get ONE to like you eventually, you win, right? If you believe that pickup is a numbers game, I’ve got news for you. You’re technically …

The Wrong Kind Of Entitlement — Game Is A PERFORMING Art

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Entitlement, Inner Game, Self-Help

Let me share with you an advanced sticking point I have in game. I have entitlement issues. No, not the kind newbies have where they feel unworthy of the girls they desire. I have TOO MUCH entitlement at times. Let me explain: I’ve slept with tons of really hot girls in my life. I’ve had rotations of many girls at a time. Basically, for the past 8-10 years I’ve never wanted for sex with hot girls. Which is great, but it does create a skewed …

Self-Help

How To “Stand Tall” In Game

Todd Inner Game, Motivation, Self-Help

The other day I found myself on a plane… as usual… but for once I wasn’t so sleep deprived as to make me fall immediately into a comatose sleep.  So my next thought was to be productive.  That thought quickly passed. Instead I turned my attention to the movie menu.  After briefly flirting with some empty-mental-calorie action flicks, I settled upon a sports title, “When The Game Stands Tall”.  It’s the story of the longest winning streak in sports history—ending.  I’m a big believer in …

One Of Those Life Moments

Todd Entitlement, Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Motivation

If you’ve been following me closely, you’ll know that I’ve just completed the launch of my Daygame product.  If you didn’t know that, it’s a testament to the fact that I’ve really let my blogging slip.  It was the biggest launch of my career and it wasn’t even mentioned on my own blog until the day before the launch… OOPS! So clearly I need to be blogging more.  I also need to be doing a better job with my social media and marketing in general. …

How to Eliminate All Negative Thoughts

Todd Inner Game, State

How to Eliminate All Negative Thoughts THIS is what absolutely stumps guys who are learning how to interpret the world from a solid inner game mindset, and it’s something I have direct experience in resolving because I’ve heard it SO many times over the years: How do I stay positive when I get a negative thought in my head? I’m going to detail exactly what I do to turn these negative thoughts completely around and into positives. Here is one of my biggest recent catchphrases …