Sexual Intent — How To Show Her You Have A Penis

JP Attraction, Conversation Skills, Daygame, Escalation, Female Psychology, Inner Game, Intent, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, State

What’s up, guys? I’m JP, one of Todd’s coaches, and I’ve been working with him for about a year and half now. Let me be the first to say that it’s been a hell of a ride, and it seems like every other day something crazy or out of the ordinary is happening. Through these articles I’ll be able to tell you all the stories, field reports, and lessons that have helped me over the course of my time in game, and I hope you …

The Point of No Return – Why She Flakes on You After a “Good” Date

Todd Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flaking, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

We’ve all had the experience. You take a girl home, everything is going well. It looks like sex is in the cards. You start to escalate. There’s a tiny bit of hesitation on her part, but she clearly likes you and is clearly horny. Clothes start coming off. Maybe you even start to finger her. Maybe she even grabs your dick over your jeans… This is looking really good, right? Next thing you know, she sits up with a start, and says she needs to …

How To Use A Condom – The Lay Report That Nearly Wasn’t

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Intent, Kissing, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

I’d like to share an interesting lay report with you, including an advanced—but super subtle—way to a pull a girl. (Oh, and I thought you’d want to know that even experienced guys can screw up royally, too. More on that in a second.) I actually find most of my lay reports boring. They have a similar pattern: Meet girl, pull girl, have sex. Wash, rinse, repeat. (Yeah, I know, talk about your “first-world problems.”) For insights into getting predictably great results when you go for …

*LRLRLR: XANEUS does 3 in a week*

Todd Phone Number, Physical Escalation

I’m going to start adding field reports to this blog, but I thought it might be amusing to go super old-school with this one.  It’s very funny how differently we thought about game and talked about game back then.  Also I was peacocking and all that… lol. This was from April 5, 2004… just before I moved to Project Hollywood. Lay #1: HB***** Sent my wing into a seated 3-set where he was quickly blown out and complained about the ***** shield on the closest …

Tips to Attract Women—How NOT to Go for the Hug

Todd Attraction, Escalation, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

Todd Valentine here, fresh off bootcamp to impart some SICK tips on how to attract women. Last night one of my students asked me a pretty interesting (and totally common) question. I get this ALL the time: Do you always go for the hug on the opener? Go for the hug? What does Go for the hug even mean? For me, the hug is such a non-accomplishment at this point in my pickup career that it DOESN’T EVEN REGISTER in my brain when I’m out. …