How To Pick Up Swedish Girls

Todd Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

It’s true what they say about Sweden. You walk into a 7-11 and the girl behind the counter should be modeling for Maxim. When me and my crew of 6 coaches arrived, we were pumped to hit it up with the Immersion students, and then we discovered one little problem: What works for us like magic in LA and NYC…wasn’t …

Create Procedures and Free Up Mental Ram

Garrett Escalation, Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Outer Game, Seeding the Pull

While serving in the United States Marine Corps, one of the biggest things I learned from my experience was the power of setting procedures. Ingraining procedures into the mind allows Marines to not only free up mental space to handle the nuances of the battlefield, but to move toward mission success while doing so. And we wouldn’t just set any …

The Point of No Return – Why She Flakes on You After a “Good” Date

Todd Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flaking, Flipping the Script, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

We’ve all had the experience. You take a girl home, everything is going well. It looks like sex is in the cards. You start to escalate. There’s a tiny bit of hesitation on her part, but she clearly likes you and is clearly horny. Clothes start coming off. Maybe you even start to finger her. Maybe she even grabs your …

The Art Of The Reframe – Your Shortcut To Persuasion And Sex

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Outer Game, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

How would you like to know how to get your way in every interaction? Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful tools in my pickup arsenal, then I’m going to show you a video of me using it to get a girl to leave the club with me in less than ten minutes. The tool is called …

How To Use A Condom – The Lay Report That Nearly Wasn’t

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Intent, Kissing, Lay Report, Outer Game, Physical Escalation, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

I’d like to share an interesting lay report with you, including an advanced—but super subtle—way to a pull a girl. (Oh, and I thought you’d want to know that even experienced guys can screw up royally, too. More on that in a second.) I actually find most of my lay reports boring. They have a similar pattern: Meet girl, pull …

Tips to Attract Women—How NOT to Go for the Hug

Todd Attraction, Escalation, Physical Escalation, Seeding the Pull

Todd Valentine here, fresh off bootcamp to impart some SICK tips on how to attract women. Last night one of my students asked me a pretty interesting (and totally common) question. I get this ALL the time: Do you always go for the hug on the opener? Go for the hug? What does Go for the hug even mean? For …