“State” in the real world… a quick lesson

Todd Uncategorized

You may notice in my upcoming video, (SPOILER, I know) that I look a little different. Specifically the beard is gone. That was not intentional, but it does make for a good lesson. I went in for a haircut the other day at a salon I’d never been to. It was a high-end establishment for the area and the hairdresser …

Why “Masculinity” Is Bullshit

Todd Inner Game, Life/Business/Health, Self-Help, Winner Game

Yes, you read that title right. Now I’m not saying there isn’t such a thing as masculinity, and I’m not saying that being polarizing and acting in “like a man” (whatever that means exactly) isn’t an effective strategy for attraction in many cases. In fact women are ON AVERAGE, attracted to traits that are more masculine. Muscular definition, facial and …

How to Not Lose at the Numbers Game

Todd Female Psychology, Inner Game, Outer Game

Ok, tell me if you’ve had this epiphany. The more girls you approach, the luckier you get. I.e. You just have to run through X number of girls before you find the one that likes you. The one you hook. The one you pull and well… get lucky with. Doesn’t matter how many rejections you get, as long as you …

Does It Feel Empty? How To Find Meaning In Pickup And Beyond

Todd Life/Business/Health, Motivation, Self-Help, Winner Game

Let’s talk about something deep. Like “meaning of life” deep… and I’m actually not kidding. But I’m not talking about some woo-woo-fairy-crystals-save-the-whales bullshit… I’m talking about something more like what you see mentioned in this clip from the movie “Without Limits”: “If you can find meaning in running chances are you’ll find meaning in life.” See I’ve always hated nebulous …

What it Means to Be Polarizing — LR From Online Game

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Dates, Escalation, Female Psychology, Lay Report, Outer Game

Attractive girls get messaged by literally hundreds of guys every day. So if you want success online, you must stand out. You need to trigger an emotional response—ideally a good one, but any response is a good one. This brings me to a key concept: polarization. Polarize [poh-luh-rahyz] to divide into sharply opposing factions, political groups, etc. Being polarizing means doing or saying something people will either love …

The Art Of The Reframe – Your Shortcut To Persuasion And Sex

Todd Attraction, Conversation Skills, Entitlement, Escalation, Female Psychology, Flipping the Script, Frame Control, Outer Game, Qualifying, Seeding the Pull

How would you like to know how to get your way in every interaction? Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful tools in my pickup arsenal, then I’m going to show you a video of me using it to get a girl to leave the club with me in less than ten minutes. The tool is called …

Up The Ante: What Poker Teaches Us About Good Game

Todd Escalation, Friend Zone, Intent, Life/Business/Health, Motivation, Outer Game, Self-Help, Winner Game

In my life, I’ve learned a lot from games; specifically games that combine skill and chance. Three of my favorites are poker, Monopoly and, of course, pickup. Luck plays a big part in each of these endeavors, so at times your fate seems out of your hands. Drawing bad cards, landing on a hotel-covered Boardwalk, opening four straight girls who …