How to Get Out of the Friend Zone

Todd Friend Zone, Intent

One of the most common questions in men’s dating is: How do I get out of the friend zone? While a simple enough concept to understand—no one likes to be involuntarily removed from consideration for intimacy—it presents a number of problems that need to be dealt with before I can present you with some avenues out of this dreaded position. …


The Ins and Outs of Text Message Game

Todd Attraction, Outer Game

These days, having a rock-solid text message game is essential for bringing more women in your life. Like it or not, the less you know about how to send and receive texts properly to attract a woman, the more likely you are to lower your chances for a face-to-face meet-up. First, let’s look into the major advantages into text message …

The Best Pickup Lines To Meet Girls

Todd Outer Game

When people find out that I’m a dating coach or “pickup artist”, one of the first questions they always ask me is – “What’s your pickup line?” It’s totally normal and I understand. When you’re not familiar with something, you usually assume you just need that that “first thing” to get you started, and then you’ll spontaneously figure out everything …

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Remotivation To Game – How To Get Yourself Out of a Pit of Negativity

Todd Inner Game, Motivation

As Memorial Day approaches, it makes me reflect on the oncoming lower-consciousness thoughts, doubt, and pit of negativity that might come with a weekend of excess. You know the ones – bachelor party, Mardi Gras, New Years’ – everything from strip clubs, bottle service, shooting guns, drunken golf, skydiving, whatever your pleasure. As an instructor is basically impossible to party that hard …

Change Your Mind, Change Your Romantic Life

Todd Attraction, Inner Game, Motivation

I wasn’t always the best with women. I overvalued them, put too much time in effort in dead relationships, and generally walked around without any clear sense of identity outside of what I thought women expected of me. To get out of this personal hell, I had to understand the inner game of personal change and utilize it to improve …

How To Get A Girl’s Phone Number

Todd Outer Game

The first and most important part of getting a girl’s phone number is having a good interaction. As basic as it sounds, the better the interaction – more likely you are to get her number. In fact, in an ideal world, the conversation should be so good that she’s asking you to get her number, or at least hinting at it.     Accept …

How to Attract Women by Supercharging Your Personality (Including Video Example)

Todd Attraction, Outer Game

It’s always interesting for me to travel internationally and observe the variety of subtle difficulties I encounter for successful pickups in different cultures. Out here in Hong Kong, we’ve had to adopt a very particular style for street game, which got me thinking a lot about different personalities in game and how each one acts and reacts to new situations. …

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The Inner Game To Attract Women

Todd Inner Game

Time and time again, I see guys in the field putting unnecessary stress on themselves by giving too much attention to their insecurities with women. With the right inner game you can easily attract a wide array of women. The Importance of Inner Game In the pickup community, insecurities with women are related to “inner game”, i.e. emotional and psychological barriers …